warm regards to all you lovely people reading this blog

let me admit this , i m a blog virgin.
i hv no experience in writting a blog.
so if u find anything amateurish in d blog including spellings , plz dont consider them

recently i was walkin through the lanes of my life , n i heard people complaining . reasons and nature of complaints varied. there were complains bout the way thier life was shaping up, or some releationship goin sore or the way they reacted in a place that was nt required ,or the way someone they liked mistreated them and many more......
so i thought , this is d thing everybody should read...so, with ur permission i continue..
these situations seems so real to us because everybody reading this is facing these or knows someone who is facing it.
i'll tell you how peple normally react to such situation .
they'll curse bout it for some time and forget it. but some part of that bad reaction remains in some part of thier mind which will come up when they complain bout some other thing. now after the second complain the amount of hatred n bad reactions in thier head doubles , and the process continues. thus complaining becomes a habbit , increasing the hatred in head with every complain.
this leaves a very bad effect on your daily life . hampers the growth in social life and some times the professional life too.
i know wt u r thinking. u probably are sayin , " oh come on man ! we all know this thing exists.. talk to us only if u hv a solution!!! "
well i gave it a thought n a possible solution came up.
i'll explain it with a very very simple example of our day to day life.
case 1.
when we walk through jungle, if we come across thorny bush, wt do we do? we either crush it or remove it from our path to continue walkin on our path...
case 2.
when we walk in a maze at entertainment park , (u know "jantar mantar" ) , we walk straight, stop by the metal railing , n turn right or left to move further without complaining , continue moving further and ultimately come out of the maze.

these case may seem very simple they provide a answer to our above mentined problems

the thorny bush symbolize the problem / situation (any sort) in our life which we cn solve . wt we do is simply remove the problem or crush / solve the problem. we dont complain " oh god y did his bush come in my path or in most cases ' y me lord , y me' ...."
thus , if u hv a problem solve it or remove it and then forget it. there are no reasons y u should carry the thoughts of it further...

in the second case , metal railings indicate the problems / situations which hv no solutions. nw wt we do is simply avoid it by changing the way we move with only one aim in mind, to come out of the maze.
we dont complain " y i cant move straight , y this metal railing which i cant move n again ' y me lord , y me '..."
there is no point in doint this , coz no matter hw much we complain , the metal wont move (perhaps coz it is not supposed to ). sometimes this kind of problems are blessings in disguise.

so my point is,
if u cn solve the problem, solve it and forget it.
if u cannot solve the problem, keeping the final destination in mind, change the way of thinking / reacting.

thank you very much for spending ur precious time to read my creation.


i hope u like it.
if u do plz leave ur comments / querries.

thank you

manu